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Dieses Thema im Forum "Beziehung & Partnerschaft" wurde erstellt von Pizzi, 29 Januar 2007.

  1. Pizzi
    Pizzi (30)
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    Hi ihr lieben,

    ich bin jetzt seit 3 Monaten mit meinem Schatz zusammen.
    Er ist 23 und ich bin 19. Es Läuft echt alles super blendend, es gibt da nur ein Problem...

    also wir sind beide nicht diejenigen die gerne Party machen und so
    naja also ich weiß net wie ichs jetzt groß erzählen soll uns fehlen einfach die Einfälle für Unternehmungen.... klar wir waren mal spazieren mit unseren Hunden oder mal mit den Ellis kurz in nem restaurant oder mal eben schnell was einkaufen aber die meiste Zeit hocken wir halt zu Hause und schaun TV/DVD oder machen halt so rum und sowas in der art.Ich will jetzt auch nicht drüber meckern aber irgendwie muss es doch auch im Winter was zu Unternehmen geben... Aber wir wissen einfach nicht was wir machen könnten.... is halt noch kein gutes Wetter und irgendwie fehlen uns die Einfälle...

    Hoffe ihr habt Ratschläge!
    Pizzi, 29 Januar 2007
  2. Gilead
    Gilead (37)
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    Schlittschuh laufen, Bummeln, Kino, Therme, Zoo, Eisbaden...

    Das letzte ist natürlich nicht ganz so ernst gemeint
    Gilead, 29 Januar 2007
  3. User 37284
    User 37284 (32)
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    vergeben und glücklich
    -zusammen kochen
    -zusammen backen
    -cocktails mixen
    -was trinken gehen
    -spazieren gehen
    -zusammen sport machen

    wäre da nichts dabei und habt ihr nicht irgendein gemeinsames hobby?
    User 37284, 29 Januar 2007
  4. Piratin
    Piratin (39)
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    The Big Three
    Every one knows about "The Big Three". These are the normal, safe dates that will cause no waves. They aren't very creative, but they are universally accepted:

    * A Movie - Inviting someone to a movie is definitely safe. It is probably the #1 first date. You can go to a first-run film or a 99¢ movie. One good way to make it a little interesting is to let your date choose the film, or put a bunch of movie names in a hat and pick one at random when you get together. You might also check out the "Alternative" movie scene, especially if you live in a good-size city. Most cities have a small theater that plays foreign or limited-run films. Local museums may also have off-the-wall films. A museum in our area, for example, plays movies outside in the summer and people bring picnics and blankets to watch the films. They also have an animation festival every year that is lots of fun.
    * A nice dinner - Another classic. As mentioned above, dinner out means that you are going to have to think of something to talk about for an hour or two. Sometimes that can be hard, especially on the first date. One way to lessen that problem is to go on a double date.
    * A Dance or a game - High schools are always having dances and football games, so you can invite your date to one of these. It's a good, safe bet.

    Other Classic Dates
    There are several other "classic" dates that you might consider. Most of these are more fun if you invite two or three other couples to go along with you:

    * Bowling
    * Roller skating
    * Ice skating
    * Miniature golf
    * Amusement parks
    * Water parks
    * Concerts
    * Getting ice cream together

    Athletic Dates
    If you and your date are athletic and/or outdoorsy, an athletic date can be a great way to spend time together. Just be sure to make it a date, not a competition:

    * Hiking and nature walks - Local city, state or national parks almost always have hiking and nature trails. Throw some drinks or a lunch in a backpack and have fun.
    * Bike riding - Find a bike path or trail in your area and go for a ride.
    * Roller blading - Go rent a pair of roller blades together and spend the day at it. If you have never roller bladed before, make sure the first date includes taking a class so you can learn how to stop!
    * Tennis
    * Horse back riding
    * Skiing
    * Water skiing
    * Billiards - It's hard to say whether or not billiards is a sport, but they do show it on ESPN. It can be a relaxing and friendly way to spend time together.
    * Exercising regularly - If you are both trying to exercise regularly, try getting together a couple of times a week for walking, riding, jogging, etc.

    Educational dates

    * Museums - Most cities and towns have museums: art museums, history museums, nature museums, etc. If you and your partner like this sort of thing, a museum can be a great place to go on a date.
    * Historical sites - Historical sites, like museums, can be interesting if you are into that sort of thing. You might be surprised by how many historical attractions there are once you start looking.
    * The Zoo - If your city has a zoo, it can be a fun place to go.
    * Factory tour - There are lots of factories that offer really interesting factory tours. For example, Ben and Jerry's ice cream offers a great factory tour if you happen to live in Vermont. If you live near Napa Valley in California, most wineries offer really interesting tours. Look in your area and see what you can find, or check out this list of great factory tours.
    * Take a one-day class together - If you can find a one-day class at a local community center or college on something like painting, photography, sailing or dancing, this can be a great date.
    * Walking tours - Large cities usually have self-guided walking tours of the historical areas of the city. Even if you have lived in the city for 15 years, it is amazing what you will learn.
    * Public gardens - If you like flowers and trees, a botanical garden, arboretum or a community garden can be a great place to visit, especially in the spring.

    One way to break the ice with a group of people is to have a small party with a theme at your house. Invite your date as one of the people at the party. As a teenager you will probably have to get your parents involved - if that is comfortable for you it can be fun for your parents too. Most of these ideas work well for parties with 6 to 10 people:

    * Pizza Party - Buy some pre-made pizza crusts, pizza or spaghetti sauce, and toppings (sausage, pepperoni, cheese, mushrooms, etc.) Pair people up and let each person create half of a pizza with whatever toppings they like. Cook the pizzas and then share them among the group. You can then all go to an ice cream place for dessert.
    * Pot luck dinner - The idea behind a pot luck dinner is that everyone brings something. As the host of a small party you would want to make the "main dish" and then have people bring other things like salads, side dishes, desserts, etc. You want to be sure to tell everyone exactly what to bring. If you don't then funny, strange things can happen.
    * Progressive dinner - If you and your friends live close together, then a progressive dinner can be lots of fun. The idea is to go from house to house for each phase of the dinner. At one house you have appetizers, at another the salad, at another the main dish, and so on. You might stop at four to six houses for the full meal. Organizing it can be half the fun.
    * Fondu party - Get a good fondu recipe and have a fondu dinner.
    * Sundae party - Buy several different flavors of ice cream, some toppings (hot fudge, sprinkles, etc.) and let people make their own sundaes. You might use this idea as the dessert for some of the other parties described here.
    * Cook out - Organize a cookout, either in your back yard or at a park. Cook hamburgers and hot dogs, serve chips and potato salad, and make ice cream for dessert if someone has a hand-cranked ice cream churn.
    * Video party - Pick up a video or two and invite some people over. Serve snacks and beverages. Or combine a pizza party or a sundae party with a video party.

    Charitable dates
    On a charitable date, you and your partner go volunteer to do something together. Here are some ideas:

    * Habitat for humanity - Work one day building a house with habitat for humanity.
    * Charity walks/runs/bike rides - lots of charities have charity walks or rides. You and your date can collect money together and then go on the walk together. Pick a cause you both believe in.
    * Volunteer activities - The two of you might volunteer at a fund raising event, a blood drive, etc.

    Other Ideas
    "Non-traditional" or "casual" dates can take some of the pressure off of going out. A casual date won't necessarily feel like a "real date", so it is more relaxed. When you ask someone to a movie, everyone knows it is a DATE. That can create pressure. But if you ask someone to go shopping with you it might be a lot more comfortable. If someone is unsure how they feel about you, then a casual date (especially if it occurs during the day rather than at night) is easier to accept. There will be a lot less tension.

    * Day trips - Pick a place an hour or two away and make a day of it. The place might be another city, a historic site, a mountain trail or a nice beach. Be sure you get home on time. My wife and I have made day trips to Washington DC, historic towns, beaches, etc. when we were dating. Planning the trip can be as much fun as the trip itself.
    * Shopping together - Let's say you are looking for a gift for someone like your mother or father. Take your date along with you to the mall and look for the gift together.
    * Picnic - Plan a picnic at a local park or natural area. Invite some friends along if you want a little less intimacy.
    * Ball game - Get a group together and go to a professional baseball/football/hockey/basketball game. Eat lunch or dinner at the game. This can be a little expensive if you aren't careful, so plan ahead. Or try going to a minor league game rather than a big league game. Not only is it cheaper, but you can get a lot closer to the players and the field.
    * Star gazing - Get a book on constellations (or invite a friend with a telescope) and watch the stars. This can be especially fun during a meteor shower.
    * Do something neither of you have done before - find an activity neither of you have tried but that you have both thought would be interesting. Figuring out the thing to do that you have in common can be as much fun as the thing itself.
    * Walk on the beach - If you live near the ocean or a large lake, taking a walk on the beach or the shoreline at sunset of in the moonlight can be very romantic. It can also be a lot more contemplative and peaceful.
    * Visit a park. You can swing together or ride down the slide. If you go in the evening it will be less crowded.
    * Cheer on a mutual friend - If the two of you have a mutual friend who is playing in a game or a concert at school, attend the performance together to cheer your friend on.
    * Go to church together - If you are both religious, take your date to your church and then go to your date's church the next week.
    * Go to a club event - If one of you is in a club, the other can tag along to see what it is like, make new friends and participate in club activities.
    * Try something spontaneous - Pick a nearby town neither of you have been to before and go explore it to see what you find. Or put a bunch of restaurant names in a hat and pick one. Spontaneous dates are probably not good for the first date, but can be fun if you have been going out for awhile.
    * Poetry reading, book reading - lots of time local authors will have poetry or book-reading sessions at local bookstores. If you like that sort of thing find one in your area.
    * Boat ride - Lots of municipal lakes have boat rentals (canoes, paddle boats, fishing boats, sail boats). Take a picnic lunch, rent a boat and see where you end up.
    * Take photographs together - Get a couple of disposable cameras and go some place to take pictures. Then once the pictures are developed compare how different they are!
    * Look up special events in the paper - The Saturday or Sunday paper in your area will have a list of special events for the weekend. You can find some really interesting things to try that way.
    * Have a dance - Usually you think of "going to the dance" at School, but what about having your own dance? Get a group of friends together, pick the music and dance.
    * Get a guide book for your city - Go to the library or a bookstore and get a tour book for your city. You will be amazed at all the attractions that are hidden nearby. A guide book may also contain self-guided walking tours that are fun. Or get a guide book for a nearby city and make a day trip there.
    * Berry picking - In the spring or summer go strawberry/blueberry/blackberry picking if available in your area. Apple picking in the fall is another option.
    * Flea market - Go explore a local flea market one Saturday.

    Sixty-Eight Fun Things to do in Walmart

    1. Take shopping carts for the express purpose of filling them and stranding them at strategic locations.

    2. Ride those little electronic cars at the front of the store.

    3.Set all the alarm clocks to go off at ten minute intervals throughout the day.

    4. Start playing Football; see how many people you can get to join in.

    5. Run up to an employee (preferrebly a male) while squeezing your legs together and practically yell at him " I need some tampons!!"

    6. Try on bras in the sewing/fabric department.

    7. Try on bras over top of your clothes.

    8. Make a trail of orange juice on the ground, leading to the restrooms

    9. While walking around the store, sing in your loudest voice possible "sex and candy"

    10. Walk up to an employee and tell him in an official tone, "I think we've got a Code 3 in Housewares," and see what happens.

    11. Tune all the radios to a polka station; then turn them all off and turn the volumes to "10".

    12. Play with the automatic doors.

    13. Walk up to complete strangers and say, "Hi! I haven't seen you in so long!..." etc. See if they play along to avoid embarrassment.

    14. While walking through the clothing department, ask yourself loud enough for all to hear, "Who BUYS this shit, anyway?"

    15. Repeat Number 14 in the jewelry department.

    16. Try putting different pairs of women's panties on your head and walk around the store casually.

    17. Leave small sacrifices or gifts in the hands of the mannequins. 18. Play soccer with a group of friends, using the entire store as your playing field.

    19. As the cashier runs your purchases over the scanner, look mesmerized and say, "Wow. Magic!"

    20. Put M&M's on layaway.

    21. Move "Caution: Wet Floor" signs to carpeted areas.

    22. Set up a tent in the camping department; tell others you'll only invite them in if they bring pillows from Bed and Bath.

    23. Contaminate the entire auto department by sampling all the spray air fresheners.

    24. Nonchalantly "test" the brushes and combs in Cosmetics.

    25. Drape a blanket around your shoulders and run around saying, "...I'm Batman. Come, Robin--to the Batcave!"

    26. TP as much of the store as possible.

    27. Randomly throw things over into neighboring aisles.

    28. Play with the calculators so that they all spell "hello" upside down.

    29. When someone asks if you need help, begin to cry and ask, "Why won't you people just leave me alone?"

    30. When two or three people are walking ahead of you, run between them, yelling, "Red Rover!"

    31. Look right into the security camera, and use it as a mirror while you pick your nose.

    32. Take up an entire aisle in Toys by setting up a full scale battlefield with G.I. Joes vs. the X-Men.

    33. Take bets on the battle described above.

    34. Set up another battlefield with G.I. Joes vs. G.I. Janes. (Red lipstick might give an interesting effect!!!)

    35. While handling guns in the hunting department, suddenly ask the clerk if he knows where the anti-depressants are. Act as spastic as possible.

    36. While no one's watching quickly switch the men's and women's signs on the doors of the rest room.

    37. Dart around suspiciously while humming the theme from "Mission:Impossible."

    38. Attempt to fit into very large gym bags.

    39. Attempt to fit others into very large gym bags.

    40. Fill your cart with boxes of condoms, and watch everyone's jaws drop when you attempt to buy them.

    41. Set up a "Valet Parking" sign in front of the store.

    42. Two words: "Marco Polo."

    43. Leave Cheerios in Lawn and Garden, pillows in the pet food aisle,etc.

    44. "Re-alphabetize" the CD's in Electronics.

    45. In the auto department, practice your "Madonna" look with various funnels.

    46. Hide in the clothing racks and when people browse through, say things like "the fat man walks alone," and scare them into believing that the clothes are talking to them

    47. While walking around alone, pretend someone is with you and get into a very serious conversation. Exp: The person is breaking up with you and you begin crying "How could you do this to me? I thought you loved me! I knew there was another girl, but I thought I had won. You kissed ME darling." Then act as though you are being beaten and fall onto the ground screaming and having convulsions.

    48. When an announcement comes over the loudspeaker, assume the fetal position and scream, "No, no! It's those voices again!"

    49. Go to an empty checkout stand and try to check people out.

    50. Drag a lounge chair on display over to the magazines and relax. If the store has a food court, buy a soft drink; explain that you don't get out much, and ask if they can put a little umbrella in it.

    51. Get a stuffed animal and go to the front of the store and begin stroking it lovingly, saying "Good girl, good bessie."

    52. Go over to the shoe department and try on every pair of shoes, not putiing one pair back. Take the paper from the boxes and throw it in various aisles.

    53. When someone steps away from their cart to look at something,quickly make off with it without saying a word.

    54. Follow people through the aisles, always staying about five feet away. Continue to do this until they leave the department.

    55. Ask other customers if they have any Grey Poupon.

    56. Test the fishing rods and see what you can "catch" from the other aisles.

    57. In the makeup department, spray yourself with every perfume there is, then walk up to a boy who is with another girl and start flirting with him in that annoying, ditsy way. "hi!!!! (giggle) What's your sign?(giggle)." When the boy shows no interest, start hitting on the girl the exact same way. "hi!!!! (giggle) What's your sign?(giggle)."

    58. Hold indoor shopping cart races.

    59. Re-dress the mannequins as you see fit.

    60.When there are people behind you, walk REALLY SLOW, especially thin narrow aisles.

    61.Relax in the patio furniture until you get kicked out.

    62.Challenge other customers to duels with tubes of gift wrap.

    63.Pay off layaways fifty cents at a time.

    64. Say things like, "Would you be so kind as to direct me to your Twinkies?"

    65. Make up nonsense products and ask newly hired employees if there are any in stock, i.e., "Do you have any Shnerples here?"

    66. Ride a display bicycle through the store; claim you're taking it for a "test drive."

    67. Leave cryptic messages on the typewriters.

    68. Get boxes of Condoms and randomly put them in peoples carts when they don't realize it!
    Piratin, 29 Januar 2007
  5. Pizzi
    Pizzi (30)
    Verbringt hier viel Zeit Themenstarter
    vergeben und glücklich
    naja zusammen kochen haben schonmal waffeln gemacht

    cocktails... er trinkt keinen alkohol ^^

    spieleabend is ja wieder zu hause... *g*

    kino is ja wie zu hause ... ^^ spazieren warn wir schon... öhm theater stehn wir beide net drauf ^zoobesuch is dann eher was für schöneres wetter find ich also is irgendwie son bisschen kompliziert ^^*gg*

    nee also bis jetzt hab ich noch net so wirklich ein gemeinsames hobby entdeckt außer bettsport :zwinker: *g* kleiner scherz hihi

    das is echt irgendwie dumm im moment :grin:
    Pizzi, 29 Januar 2007
  6. Gladiator
    Verbringt hier viel Zeit
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    Wenn ich ne Freundin hätt, würd ich mit ihr in so n Hallenbad gehen...Mit so vielen Rutschbahnen. :drool:
    Gladiator, 29 Januar 2007
  7. User 37284
    User 37284 (32)
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    na super...
    außerdem verstehe ich nicht, wieso jeder mit cocktails immer gleich alkohol assoziiert, es gibt doch auch alkoholfreie cocktails, das ist doch überhaupt kein Problem?!

    Außerdem, was heißt denn, kino ist wie zu hause? man kann ja davor einfach noch was trinken gehen und was das spazieren gehen betrifft: ist doch egal oder kann man alles nur einmal machen? :ratlos:

    dann geht halt mal schlittschuhfahren oder bowlen.

    dachte sich mein Freund auch mal und war dann total stinkig, weil ich nicht rutschen wollte :grin:
    User 37284, 29 Januar 2007
  8. Gladiator
    Verbringt hier viel Zeit
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    Warum wolltest du denn nicht rutschen? :grin:
    Gladiator, 29 Januar 2007
  9. Pizzi
    Pizzi (30)
    Verbringt hier viel Zeit Themenstarter
    vergeben und glücklich
    nein sicherlich kann man das öfters machen hihi haben wir ja auch schon aber hab halt nach anderen möglichkeiten gefragt ^^ :smile:
    hmm joa das mit dem rutschen... hihi jaja das würd ich dann glaub ich auch net machn ^^ steh net so auf rutschen *g*
    Pizzi, 29 Januar 2007
  10. gemini
    gemini (34)
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    na euch können doch nach 3 Monaten nicht schon die Ideen ausgehen :hmm: wie habt ihr denn eure Freizeit verbracht, bevor ihr euch kennengelernt habt? Da muss es doch gemeinsame Interessen geben.

    Wenn ihr gerne Filme schaut, geht ins Kino, dass ist doch viel besser als zu Hause. Außer ihr habt einen super Fernseher und eine Surround-Anlage. Wenn ich da an meine popelige olle Glotze denke :grin:
    Winterspaziergänge und danach zu zweit in die heiße Badewanne :drool:, Billard, jegliche Sportarten, die man in der Sporthalle veranstalten kann (meldet euch gemeinsam im nächsten Sportverein an)
    habt ihr so eine Skihalle in der Nähe, dann versucht euch doch mal im Skifahren oder Snowboarden. Oder noch besser ihr wohnt in Süddeutschland :zwinker:
    Konzerte, Musicals, Kabarett (jetzt nich so altbackener Kram, sondern bekannte Comedians)
    gemini, 29 Januar 2007
  11. Pizzi
    Pizzi (30)
    Verbringt hier viel Zeit Themenstarter
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    hihi ja sportverein ist schlecht... da er arbeitet und danach immer sau müde ist und er hat ja auch immer alle 2 wochen spät das heißt er fährt um 13 uhr 80km zur arbeit und hat erst um 24 uhr wieder frei.... und wenn er frühschicht hat ist er auch immer erst um 17:30 zu hause kann dann nicht mehr viel machen weil er müde is und früh schlafen geht weil er ja auch wieder um 4 uhr irgendwas aufsteht...
    hoffe man versteht was ich sagen wollte ^^
    Pizzi, 29 Januar 2007
  12. gemini
    gemini (34)
    Verbringt hier viel Zeit
    in einer Beziehung
    na dann vielleicht im Fitnessstudio anmelden, da seid ihr zeitlich ungebundener und geht ja auch am WE :zwinker:
    gemini, 29 Januar 2007
  13. Pizzi
    Pizzi (30)
    Verbringt hier viel Zeit Themenstarter
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    naja Freizeit davor?? hihi ich war einfach die meiste zeit inner stadt shoppen.... er ist eher derjenige der schnell schnell macht und an allem vorbeirennt ^^ oder halt für die schule gelernt oda bei freunden.... naja
    und die sportlichen sachen sind mal überhaupt nichts für mich weil ich absolut unsportlich bin deswegen weiß ich net was man machen kann ist einfach beschissen.... minigolf ginge ja wieder aber ist halt kalt ^^ wüsste genügend fürn frühling oda sommer.... *g*
    Pizzi, 29 Januar 2007
  14. gemini
    gemini (34)
    Verbringt hier viel Zeit
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    puh ihr seid aber ein schwieriger Fall :zwinker: ihr sucht eine gemeinsame Beschäftigung, die nicht zu Hause stattfinden soll, aber auch im Winter möglich sein muss, nichts mit Sport zu tun hat und wenn es geht nur am Wochenende....hm

    ihr habt doch Hunde! meldet euch in der Hundeschule an, da gibt es ja nicht nur Kurse für Hundeerziehung sondern auch z.B. Agility-Kurse


    "Agility" bedeutet soviel wie "Gewandtheit" und ist ein aus England stammender Sport, der Vierbeinern und Zweibeinern eine gehörige Portion Fitness abverlangt. In den letzten Jahren hat der Agility-Sport, bei dem es gilt, einen komplizierten Hindernis-Parcours zu überwinden, auch in Deutschland viele begeisterte Anhänger gefunden. Zahlreiche Hundeschulen haben einen eigenen Agility-Platz angelegt und selbstverständlich werden auch regelmäßig Meisterschaften organisiert, auf denen sich die besten Pärchen miteinander messen können.

    sorry, dass ich jetzt auf so verrückte Ideen komme, aber alle bekannteren Freizeitbeschäftigungen wurden ja schon genannt :smile:
    gemini, 29 Januar 2007
  15. das-schatzili
    ahhh,man kann so viel machen ....essen zusammen kochen,
    spiele spielen,freunde einladen und einen spiele abend veranstalten,
    schlittschuh laufen,wenns schnee gibt,schlitten fahren,spazieren gehen,kino,baden,......soooooo viel!!!
    das-schatzili, 29 Januar 2007

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